Help Me Find Her: She's not invisible
- csalvant
- Dec 26, 2025
- 2 min read
You know her and I want you to connect us. I’m going to ask something a little vulnerable—
and I’m asking it because I trust you.
I know amazing people. Thoughtful people. People who see others deeply. And I know that you know women who are frustrated, lost, tired of carrying everything and feeling invisible, or quietly wondering, “Is this really all there is?”
She may not say it out loud. She may be showing up for everyone else just fine. But inside, she’s craving clarity, connection, rest, and hope. I want to help her have a better 2026.
But I can’t find her without you.
Here’s how you can help me help her
If a woman comes to mind as you’re reading this—please don’t ignore that nudge.
That’s usually where the magic happens. Spend five minutes thinking about the women in your life, it could be a family member, friend, coworker, neighbor, or acquaintance. There are multiple ways you can connect us.
You can:
Gift her something meaningful
Order her a calendar that creates space for reflection and connection
Share one of my books that helps her slow down and remember who she is
Sign her up for an event where she doesn’t have to perform—just be
Love on a couple
Gift a couple in your life the Time For Us calendar—because strong marriages don’t happen by accident, and connection deserves intention
Strengthening partner relationships improves every other area of life
Share your story
If my work has helped you—personally, in your marriage, or in how you see yourself—tell that story
A text, a post, a quiet recommendation, or a Google review goes farther than you know
Help me reach them
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This is not about selling.
This is about serving.
It’s about women remembering they matter. Couples choosing each other again. Families slowing down long enough to reconnect.
If you’ve ever thought, “I wish someone had told me this sooner”—this is your chance to be that someone for another woman. If that woman is you, I invite to you to join me on Sunday
for an essential discussion for women, especially mothers. Whether you're raising boys or girls, we all need to discuss the concepts of this book. It'll be a hybrid event so our local ladies can connect in person while including those who need a virtual option.
Thank you in advance for helping me find her. Thank you for trusting my heart. Thank you for believing that 2026 can be gentler, stronger, and more intentional—for all of us.
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